The solution to all problems is love! And at the root of all problems is relationships! How to manage these myriad relationships with love?
Relationships change, and our expectations also change. Both are on a never-ending roller-coaster ride. Change being the only constant, as situations change out there, we need to make changes in here also. Unfortunately, the speed of change outside is much faster than the speed of change within. The world outside has taken great strides in technology and development. But the individual mind is struggling to change its values and belief systems, which are not in sync with the changed times.
We want to live independently, without having to take on the responsibility of the other. The expectation was that living our independent lives is the key to happiness and joy! Too many relationships entail too much adjustment, and we do not want to adjust anymore. Yet, the divorce rates have doubled, trebled in the last decade. Love marriages are more and so are divorces. People are falling apart, which manifests in the rates of depression. So, where is the happiness or love we seek?
Because of technological advancements, our standard of living has gone up. But because of the stress that change generates, our quality of life has gone down. ..We have a better standard of life but a lower quality of life.
Whenever there is change, there are problems. Times have changed. We fiercely fight to be heard and exercise our freedom of thought and spirit. Embracing technology and change we moved from integration to individual lifestyles. But the DNA is slow to change! We still seek companionship, people and a connection. We are social beings and that is still in our DNA.
How can we handle change and the problems it generates effectively without the negative repercussions of unhealthy stress?
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