In all my previous blog posts on this topic of Mindset, I have pointed out the disadvantages of the fixed mindset. So, before closing this series with the tips shared by Dr. Carol Dweck to develop a growth mindset, I wanted to share the benefits of the fixed mindset. Not to rob away anything from the greatness fixed mindset has to offer.
My discipline and need to be organized comes from my mindset. Practice to perfection is also a fixed mindset attribute. I stay committed and see things through with sheer will power and grit, even though heart of hearts I know it is not my true calling. My fixed mindset helps me quickly make a place for myself in any situation or role. The need to excel is very strong and the insecurity that my value will diminish, or my self-worth is at stake gives me sleepless nights! All my short-term goals are met irrespective of whether they are to my liking or not. Biggest proof is my job, which is not to my liking at all. Yet I do well because I cannot do with anything less! I do not shy away from my duties, responsibilities. People can rely on me and know that if I have committed to something, I will get it done. These are all the big positives of a fixed mindset.
John McEnroe is the best example of fixed mindset! He continuously did what he did best, perfecting his strengths. Like a true fixed mindset person, he shifted the blame onto the other player, umpire, audience when he lost a game. And when he won, it was all his skill, finesse and performance, of course!
I feel like if I can make a perfect blend of growth and fixed mindset, I can use these skills and create miracles in my life! Developing a growth mindset will help me build the courage to take risks, and do what makes me happy, even if it is not as secure or paying as my current job.
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